DH and I have been in and around the World of IVF for many years now. DD, who is 4, is an IVF baby, as is DS, who is 2 (FET cycle).
Suffice it to say, we are tired much of the time. We are 100 percent grateful for our IVF successes and count our blessings. We both work, full-time. And we have great childcare.
We had lots and lots and lots of sex while TTC #1. Before TTC, we had a reasonable sex life, but nothing out of the ordinary. Some time after DD was born (in 2005), we had sex once. We have not done so since. For me, it's a combination of incredible fatigue, not feeling at all desirable, and probably some part is attributable to my being on antidepressants (which are known to depress libido).
I just don't know what to do. Is this common? Sound familiar to anyone?