Hi Ladies,
I have some bad news to share. We originally did a 3-2 reduction and we ended up losing the twins last night at 22w3d. My cervix started dilating and I ended up going into labor and delivering. It was terrible. There is a slight chance that the reduction could have caused this, because the reduced fetus was sitting on my cervix. But it could have happened anyway with multiples and my cervix just being stupid. We don't really have any way to know. But I don't regret our decision to reduce. I did what I thought was best at the time. I really feel like I would have had a lot more problems even earlier if I had tried to carry all three.
I think we're going to take a break for awhile and just see what happens. I don't think I can jump back into fert. treatments for another year or so.
Thank you all for your support, I'm really glad I found this board and that you were able to bring me peace when making a really difficult decision.
I wish you all the best of luck!