Some of you might remember me from a few months ago. I got pregnant on DE IVF #1 with triplets (identical twins and a fraternal triplet), but unfortunately had a miscarriage at 6.5 weeks after hearing all three heartbeats possibly due to a large hematoma. I had a D&C, waited for one cycle, and then jumped back into the game again. My second DE IVF #2 (fresh cycle again) resulted in being diagnosed with a blighted ovum at 7 weeks. I miscarried naturally in December and waited to have three periods before doing any more treatments. I am on day 2 of Lupron now for a FET.
Here is my dilemma: I have 2 6-day blasts of high quality from DE IVF#1 and 1 6-day blast of high quality from DE IVF#2. I want to transfer all 3 given my track record. However, my husband is terrified of having another multiple pregnancy because of how bad my miscarriage was. He wants to transfer 2 maximum.
I am 33 and have had 7 IUIs and 5 fresh IVF cycles with my own eggs (one chemical and all others BFNs). My sister is my donor -- she is a little younger than me (she donated eggs to me when she was 31) and she has had two pregnancies with one successful birth (a healthy 2-year-old).
The first DE IVF cycle we transferred 3 blasts and the second cycle 2 blasts.
Since I've heard that frozen cycles don't have as high of a chance of success, am I crazy for wanting to transfer all 3 remaining blasts?
Please help!