Here's the deal: Ever since dd was born, dh has been utterly unhelpful with any form of child care, housework, etc. Basically he wants to sit on the couch during all of his free time, weekends, etc. and play his computer game. He tells me he's "depressed." He refuses to get counseling, which I have asked him to do many times.
I just don't care anymore. I'm tired of dragging him out with dd and I to walk in the nice weather, do errands etc. I'm tired of doing 100% of the childcare. He's starting to depress me and I feel bad for dd, who is an easy baby and a joy to be around.
Do I just keep letting life limp along? Do I give him an ultimadum? I don't want to get divorced, but I want a husband who will seek some enjoyment from life and be a good father.
Any thoughts you have would be welcomed.
CM