my very dear friend just got married for the first time last month at 42. she has wanted to be married and have a family for many years. they are now TTC and starting their IF work-up. They don't have much money and have a few IUIs covered by insurance, but not IVF. She does have a history of being able to conceive (but no kids). She, of course, knows my IF struggles.
so far I've just been listening and supportive. I don't want to panic her - she is still enjoying the glow of being a newlywed. Should I just let her go down her own path - doing a few IUIs (hopefully having success) before jumping into IVF. I know personally I needed to take baby steps with the IUIs before diving into the big pool. But I was 36 when I started IF treatment. She is 42.
what advice would give your very good friend? also, she hasn't actually asked me for advice, she is just sharing with me her experiences... should I even give her any advice? I have mentioned accupuncture and supplements, but that's it