Hi ladies,
First of all, congrats to all of you for being here!
Secondly, when did you feel safe to tell people you were pregnant?
I am 14 weeks 1 day pregnant with fraternal twins. I get to have weekly ultrasounds because I have a hematoma and I am still bleeding/spotting every few days. The hematoma is now way smaller than the babies, so I hope it's a good sign. Also, this pregnancy started out with quads, but we lost identical twins at 8 weeks (their heartbeats stopped). The sac with identicals is still in my uterus right above the hematoma between the live twins. So I have a lot going on in my uterus. We had an NT scan and both babies looked great. However, according to my OBGYN, I still have 10% chance of miscarrying my babies because of the hematoma and the other sac.
I had two m/c prior to this -- lost triplets after hearing their heartbeats at 6.5 weeks and then had a blighted ovum pregnancy that I m/c at 7.5 weeks. This is the furthest I've ever made it in pregnancy. Also, I am 34 but I used donor eggs and my donor is 27, has a child of her own and has produced two singelton pregnancies at my clinic.
I am so paranoid about telling people I am pregnant, yet I really want to share the news with some close friends! So far we've told only my mom and siblings, two couples that we are close with, and one girlfriend. I am showing a little now, so it will be hard to hide my pregnancy much longer.
Thanks for listening,
Kite