colette on "Need your insights-(loss mentioned)"

Hi All,
I need your thought about my situation. I had a second trimester loss two years ago. I am finally preganncy again recently. I live in ontario where, as far as I heard, Hopspitals here won't give you tocolytics in case of preterm labour. I am really afraid of having preterm labour again.
My parents suggest me to go back to my hometown where hospital offers all kinds of treatment for perganncy over 20 weeks. But it takes 25 hour trip to get there including 15 hour on two different flights. I am really afraid I won't be able to handle the long trip. Now I am on the fence of taking the risk of trip or taking the risk of preterm labour.
Any suggestions if you were me?
Anyone knows any Peri offers tocolytics in winsor or bufflo? They are the cities I can reach by car in case of emergency.
Thanks
Rach