We've had no big changes in our lives, but 3 year old DD will sometimes wet 5 times a day. She seems to do much better on days with Dad and at preschool. I think it is just me. It was/is a power struggle but I've been very laid back about it for the past few weeks with little change. Some days are better than others. She can certainly control it when she wants to, she most likely doesn't have physical problem, just is being lazy.
I've tried setting a timer and having her go when it goes off, but that leads to power struggle.
I've tried letting her sit in wet pants, that leads to rashes.
I've tried having her change her own pants, that leads to more power struggles.
I've tried bribes, like candy and stickers and rewards (even a trip to a waterpark!) but she loses interest.
I know this won't last forever, but it has been 3 or 4 months now. She is a very stubborn, determined, strong, and independent (when she wants to be) person. How would you handle it?
Thanks,
aduzer