Chahira on "Need Advise- DE/Husband/Finances"

SO Im 42 will be 43 in March! Been through several IUI's & IVF's and have decided on going the DE route! Insurance was great and paid for 3 IVF'S and now its all out of pocket! SO for the last month I've been trying to get credit where available and loans to get the money to pay for the procedure. With a couple of different companies Ive gotten enough to pay for half. I thought my husband was on board with our decision but after talking to him about the other half of the money he's decided we should wait! Our money situation is tight as it is \"AND I UNDERSTAND THAT\"! But how long do you wait when you get in your 40's! My thoughts are rob Peter to pay Paul until we get our baby and make due with what we have! His view is we'll be able to do nothing but pay bills no more vacations etc... He makes it seem like we have lots of time to work with!! ANYONE else with husbands or problems like this? What do you do GIVE UP, WAIT or keep pushing the issue???