I guess I am old-school. I was brought up that if you misbehaved, you got a whoopin'. Now I'm not saying abuse, but enough to (sorta) keep me in line~ until I hit my teens anyway. 
Now times have changed. Spanking is taboo.
Does anyone else out there in parent-land think that a well placed smack on the behind can go a long way?
I have a very, shall we say, \"defiant\" 2yo who is not phased by time-outs. She just doesn't seem to care. She'll sit there, then when time out is over she goes right back to whatever got her in trouble in the first place.
I'm talking behavior I DO NOT want: biting, hitting, kicking, throwing to name a few.
What to do if I cannot spank?
~Brandi