Hello all,
I am new to here, I found it on another site (resolve) My husband and I got the deverstating news that we can not a child with his sperm. He does not have nay. We have no idea why. He had the teestes surgey (sp) and the results were 0. So now we are looking into donor sperm. I am 38 years old he is 35 so we don't have a wholoe lot of time to decide. We started seeing a infertility therapist who is trying to help my husband get to place I already am. I was wondering a few things:
-How long did it take you to decide to used donor sperm?
-Did you disclose? My husband does not want to to anyone. (He has a child thankfully from his first wife) So the idea thath she would know (only 6) and then tell everyone else-does not give good feelings.
-Anyone from around the RI area? Our therapist suggested we talk in person with people who used donor sperm and get their experiences. There doesn't seem to be a lot of groups on SE I have found a lot more with DE.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Diane