MC mentioned
Ladies forgive me for invading your board. I'm almost 42 so I belong on the 40-44 year old board but I could use a reference point that I do not think I will find on my board as I am quite a bit younger than my husband. Are there any women out there with husbands in their late 50s to mid 60s?
I just miscarried our twins this past weekend. You know those lovely intelligent comments people make when you MC, well I've gotten my fill today. I think if one more idiot tells me that my miscarriage is a \"blessing\" because of my husband's age and then makes some reference to his dying I may resort to violence.
It is not like my husband is in poor health or they have a reason to make the comment. The man is more likely to have an accident felling a tree and crush himself than to have a heart attack. I buried a 41 year old husband before I met my current husband so I just do not believe in numbers anymore but right now I've developed an infection from the mc and I feel so crappy I could really use the moral support of knowing we are not alone.