We met with an MFM today. He was frank and honest, which we needed, but he was also clear not to steer us in one particular direction. We still have no idea what the "right" thing to do is. After trying to conceive for three years and having 2 miscarriages, the thought of purposely ending the life of one of my babies is awful. However, by keeping all 3 am I dooming them (and myself) to serious health problems, or worse? I couldn't stand to lose all of them at a later point b/c I wasn't strong enough to do what I needed to do to reduce our risks. Logically, I know we would face fewer risks if we reduced to 2, but emotionally I just don't know if I can do it.
I know no one can make the decision but us, but I'd appreciate any words of support, wisdom, pros, cons, etc. This is agonizing.