Hi Ladies. I am currently 38.5. Just got married for the first time 2 years ago to my dh. Do not have any kids yet. Have done two fresh IVFs (BFN's) and one frozen got pregnant and lost it very early. Debating doing another cycle with my own eggs or moving on to donor. Really struggling with this decision. I lost my mother when I was 16, and somehow that seems to make loosing the genetic link even harder...I just really long for that genetic link....but I've never been a parent so I don't really know if I am making the loss bigger than it really needs to be.
Cost is an issue as none of my past attempts were covered.
I was just wondering what your FSH levels were for those of you who were successful when trying with your own eggs? My last FSH was 10.something. I do not know if that means I should give up on my own eggs? Any thoughts?
Thank-you so much.