I thought this might be of interest to others who have experienced stillbirth. March of Dimes has set up a way to donate that allows you to put in the name of your child and gives a unique url.
marchofdimes.com
She sent out an update on my recent stillbirth to our friends and included the URL for anyone who wanted to donate. People have donated a little over $500 so far - it does make me feel that there is some tiny bit of good coming from my son's death.