Hello everyone,
We are not quite at DE yet. We are doing one last hail marry cycle with my own eggs but I have no faith in it at all.
It is hard to admit this becuase I feel that most people believe it is best to tell the child, but I can't hide my feelings from myself. I just don't want to tell. I don't want the child to feel that he or she isn't mine. I don't want others to treat my child differently, especially family....and they would.
If I weren't afraid that my child would find out someday as an adult, I would not even consider telling.
Have any of you considered not telling? How likely is it that a child could find out? Is this just something I have to wrap my head around?
Please don't hate me for these thoughts.
Jordana