I posted a couple weeks ago about my neighbor warning me not to put DS in a certain church's summer camp and she wouldn't tell me why except to say that she was sworn to secrecy.
Well, it's apparently not so secret. If you ask enough people you will find someone who knows the (alleged) truth. I left no stone un-turned.
The youth minister is alleged to have sexually experimented with similarly aged boys when he was a teenager. He's all grown up now and married with kids. Of course that doesn't prove his sexual orientation but I don't care about that. Small minded people need to get over that just because a man is gay doesn't mean he is a child molester. I understand being cautious. I understand being overly cautious when it comes to your kids but c'mon already. I *think* most child molesters are straight men. Anyone have any stats on that?
So, the YM may or may not be gay and who cares? That is the big secret and come to find out he's not even running the summer camp this year, a woman is.