In 2007 we had our DD via donor egg, on a frozen cycle. The fresh was unsuccessful. This month we did a FET using our 2 remaining embryos, only one made the thaw and it was a BFN. Now I am deciding what we will do next.
Our previous donor is unavailable. Since 2007 we have purchased a house, an old house with a lot of work needed. Currently we are rebuilding the basement. After that there is the yard, the roof and the kitchen to be redone as well as insulation.... You get the picture, and we are living in one of the most unaffordable housing markets in Canada.
So, do we try again or count our blessings? I would really really like to experience the whole pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding thing again and we would like our DD to have a sibling. I'm just not sure we can afford another $30 thousand and donor embryo is a no go for DH. Oh, I am 41 and we did DE because I carry a balanced translocation and I couldn't get pregnant following our one and only miscarriage in 2000, with and without all the technology out there. We were lucky and have no IF debt up until now.
Anyone have any great money saving tips?
C