My husband and I are doing a FET with donor embies cycle in July. We plan to be very open about using donors, but when I actually try to picture a conversation with someone, I can't seem to think of what to say. Our coloring may not match very closely, so it could be very obvious.
I don't want to be obnoxious about and fit it into every conversation, and I don't want our (hypothetical) children to feel like they are any different from any other child. I want to celebrate how they come to us, but I don't want it to define them.
How did you find a happy medium?
Thanks!
Andrea
