I need some guidance here. I just turned 40, fsh is 10.4 , amh is .7
Some docs say that I should go through IVF again and there is a chance I will become pregnant with OE. Then other docs say that if I want a baby, move on and get a DE. I am so confused, emotionally burned out, broke, and this has been a huge stress on our marriage. I have been lately feeling very positive, working out, and getting acupuncture.
I have had three IVF cycles this yr. Two converted ( beleived 3 eggs) and one complete IVF with 5 eggs, 3 mature, and two embys transerred. Did not work. I have also done nat IUI's between cycles and I am about to do a an IUI with Clomid. I actually become pregant with a natural IUI cycle. IT only lasted about 3 weeks and was a chemical. Talk about dangling a carrot in front of my face.
I have thought a lot about using a DE and I will if that is my last resort. My friend has one bio baby and is now pregnant with twins from a DE. She has really helped a lot going through this process. I am very open to DE becasue of her.
I did go through IVF 3 yrs ago for baby no 1. We are blessed to have a 22 mo old healthy girl. We had 13 eggs retreived, 10 embryo's. I froze five and then on day 5 the five in culture went down to 2. They trasnferred 2 and it did not work. Two mos later they did a frozen trasnfer with 3 and I got pregnant. IT took 10 emby's for one baby. There is no way now I am producing 13 eggs again. It seems only like 3.
So with all of that said, should I move on to the ED process? Should I go through IVF again with my own eggs?
I as at MLF and now I am at RSI. If I decide to go through IVF again...should I be at CCRM or Cornell? Is there a better chance for me at one of these top clinics???
Thanks- JenD