Hi. Just stopping by to get some more insight and vent a little.
After losing twins about 3 years ago with a normal pregnancy (momo twins/nuchal fold/tangled-D&C), next we had a \"normal\" singleton with Clomid help but lost that one at 8 weeks (heart stopped/D&C), then we went through a bunch of medication and couldn't get pregnant...So, we decided to try IVF. My wife and I actually got pregnant with TWINS, normal ones. We did not get our hopes up at anytime until this week.
At 7 weeks she started to bleed a lot...Gushes of bright red blood, went to the ER and we were certain we were losing both. After an u/s we discovered both twins to have healthy heartbeats.
At 8 weeks, she had just small brown spottings and felt like it might be resolving.
On Tuesday this week, we were 9 weeks and began to feel a little hope. Right away during the u/s, the doctor said we lost one. Devistated because it was the stronger one (stronger HB and measured bigger too). The weaker one measured a HB of 163/measuring a little behind 8.8 weeks and the blood is circling and pooling around/big area, not sure what the measurement is. Is there any hope at all? Please share. Luckily, we have 5 embryos frozen at Day 5...So, we might be trying this again after/if we lose the other baby. Not feeling good at all about our chances. My head hurts, I'm sad all day long, dazed, and wondering why we have to go through more loses again.
My wife is still just having little brown spottings throughout the day, but no major bleeds. I'm beginning to worry that the blood is not resolving and she is at the risk of an infection. I'm glad we have this connection board because family and friends make us even more upset.