Between DH and I, we have 4 cousins graduating from HS/College this weekend. We can only attend one of the graduations. What is the etiquette and how much should we give? If we don't attend the party, do we still send a card with $$? How much is reasonable? We can't do very much at all per our budget. Would a card and $20 be totally insulting? How about $30? These are our cousins' children, not first cousins. I am totally dreading sitting through the 3 hour ceremony with my 6 yr old dd's. Any tips on that?
Thanks,
Renee